Wednesday, November 18, 2009

How to Find Other Lesbians

This is the 21st century. A lot has changed. People are becoming more open about their sexuality. There are not so many closet cases, still just because you’re ready to come out of the closet doesn’t mean it’s easy to find someone to experiment with or even talk to.

  1. Don't be afraid of online dating. There are a lot of high quality dating sites dedicated to lesbians. Online dating is rather fabulous. It's a lot better than just getting hit on by a drunk chick at a bar. It's also a bonus that you kinda get to read their profile. It tips you off on what their about.

  2. Join a club. Most cities have LGBT organizations. If they seem scarce just look for this group at a nearby college. Most universities have them and gladly welcome the public to attend their meetings. It's a great way to make friends and even get a date, not to mention it's a safe place to discuss issues that other people are uncomfortable talking about.

  3. Gay bars. Almost every city has a gay bar. Go and mingle. It's just like going to a regular bar, but with more people you can hit on. It can be intimidating for a first experience so see if you can get a friend to go.

  4.  Have an open eye. Women are more likely to explore with their sexuality than men. Just because a girl looks like a girly girl doesn't mean she doesn't like girls. Try to develop your gaydar. Lesbians are everywhere.